I mean my favourite is probably Miss Vanjie… but not for any other reason than her instincts to grab for whatever worked and then ride that train home. Which I suspect I could probably think of someone more ‘worthy’ on the other hand – aren’t we all worthy and isn’t a role model just another human who humanned really well?
Realistically RuPaul fits that and oh Christ she has her problematic bits up the wazoo. But at least she’s consistent and encouraging of good mental health habits and we need them in the community.
Madonna maybe though people object when I include her in the QUILTBAG. Actually I’m really in awe of Chappelle Roan at the moment and I think she makes a good role model for being unapologetically queer and authentic throughout.