I mean seriously, when you come down to it, isn’t it all much the same? Or at the very least gender is imposed by social pressures – outside in rather than inside out? I think so sometimes. Then I’m forced to remember that actually – no, it’s not solely social notions of gender norms that … Read More

So when does polite become friendly? More to the point when does polite to someone you dislike become two-faced?

So I don’t feel too bad about having to attend Dark Side late next weekend. This weekend I headed down to Warrington to see Lady Byron and go out clubbing with her and the Beautiful Furness Barmaid who I haven’t seen since I was at university. It was nice catching up with Lady B in … Read More

I’m having a good day, I felt a little like I was drowning on Monday, posted a blog entry about it and was rewarded by having several life-vests thrown at me from a variety of directions. Sure, I’m not suddenly entirely back to normal but I’m still swimming and afloat and with all you wonderful … Read More

This does get explicit towards the end I like being tied up. Now I’ve posted before about not being vanilla but until recently I wouldn’t have described myself as particularly kinky. However, something someone said about sex got me thinking. Is it vanilla sex when you just jump on each other, do it and then … Read More