Pretty Poly

The thing that I do love about polyamory, that I’ve loved since before the Jellicle and I started this weird loving journey of ours is how each love adds to the loves you already have.

How learning to love another person, understanding and building that language with them means you add to the language you have with your other partners, hell more than that, with every person you love. Every node of your spider lights added to and loved more and more as you continue to build your understanding and definition of love and what that is and how it’s felt.

Each person loves differently and as you deliberately build your relationship with them you are building onto your sense of how love works, of what it is and in doing so you’re building new parts of yourself with your partners.

It’s like some diamond self-reflection of an Indra’s Net meditation.

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