Category Archives: Diary


Men Doing Better

I often do not write very encouragingly about men on this blog, it’s a place to vent and frankly I don’t think any woman gets to forty without ending up needing to vent about men. Maybe lesbians if there’s a real place to live in some kind of utopia like a low-budget version of The … Read More




End of the Year Même

1.What did you do in 2021 that you’d never done before? Tried pole dancing 2. Did you keep your new years’ resolutions, and will you make more for next year? I always do, I find it concentrates my focus. 3. Did anyone close to you give birth? My sister had her third child, the lovely … Read More



RIP Anne Rice

Everyone who likes vampires has a book or a film that really kicked that off. I think I usually claim Dracula and Coppola. But really, my inner twelve year old wanted to be Claudia from Interview with a Vampire and I read every single one of the Vampire chronicles until I was nineteen. I think … Read More


Intimacy and Sex and All That Jazz

(Content Warning: This is one hell of a waffly self-indulgent ramble) Someone pointed out that the way I used the word ‘intimacy’ the other day was not really reflective of what I actually think intimacy is. An entirely accurate point but trapped as I am expressing myself within the structure of a shared language I … Read More



Together Forever – Perfect Parents

Content Warning: Self-Harm, Disordered Eating – rambly format I am on a complete high following an online LARP on Saturday. I really am enjoying the Together Forever setting, (though admittedly I haven’t played the poly iteration of the game) I’ve written before about it’s dystopian future dating premise. This game was based around the couples … Read More